Housing issues

In 2014 me & my Son were stalked.  People in the neighbourhood took it upon themselves to enter our flat illegally.  Police said no sign of forced entry they can't investigate ! 

Apparently they had been watching us for five years so one of them told me last year !

we ended up being sexually exploited in the property.  From Sep 2015 to Dec 2015.

Which everyone ignored. I applied to the local council to move  last October still havn't had a reply from them. 

My Housing association refused to rehouse us on the grounds that this wouldn't effect my mental health.  

Have a diagnosis of depression.  Which used to be winter only.  What with now having to live in my Mums front room opposite a garage with my severely autistic Son. i have asthma to.  Not suitable.  

I have never been so miserable.  We have seen just how unhelpful these agencies have been it has turned into secondary victimisation.  Even though my depression has never presented in the form of delusions they have tried to blame the stalking and rapes on my mental health.  I want desperately want to move away from the area of my Mums & the flat but was told if I leave the flat will make myself unintentionally homeless.

So stuck with a flat we can't sleep in.  At my Mums I still hear the verbal abuse.  Was getting called a whore even though they entered our flat while we slept drugged us then sexually exploited us.  Then they would tell us the following day.  But not use my name.

I feel we are stuck with these people in our lives as the police didn't take me seriously.

Because of these group stalkers/rapists our lives have come to a halt.

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  • Hi Starstruck

    I’m sorry you are going through such a tough time, it’s good that you are able to communicate what is happening.

    If you are unable to cope with the distress or despair, it’s very important to tell someone about your feelings or thoughts. Call your GP and make an urgent appointment. Your GP can make sure you get appropriate help and support.

    If it’s outside your GP hours call  111  to reach the NHS 111 service::   www.nhs.uk/.../NHS-111.aspx 

    The Samaritans also provide confidential non-judgemental emotional support, 24 hours a day on 116 123, or by email on jo@samaritans.org

    If you feel threatened do get back in touch with the local Police. They should take you seriously.

    If you need help with an autism related issue, our helpline can be emailed on autismhelpline@nas.org.uk or they’re open Monday to Thursday 10am-4pm and Friday 9am-3pm on 0808 800 4104. 

    Best Wishes

    Bob - Mod

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  • Hi Starstruck

    I’m sorry you are going through such a tough time, it’s good that you are able to communicate what is happening.

    If you are unable to cope with the distress or despair, it’s very important to tell someone about your feelings or thoughts. Call your GP and make an urgent appointment. Your GP can make sure you get appropriate help and support.

    If it’s outside your GP hours call  111  to reach the NHS 111 service::   www.nhs.uk/.../NHS-111.aspx 

    The Samaritans also provide confidential non-judgemental emotional support, 24 hours a day on 116 123, or by email on jo@samaritans.org

    If you feel threatened do get back in touch with the local Police. They should take you seriously.

    If you need help with an autism related issue, our helpline can be emailed on autismhelpline@nas.org.uk or they’re open Monday to Thursday 10am-4pm and Friday 9am-3pm on 0808 800 4104. 

    Best Wishes

    Bob - Mod

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