• Replies 7 replies
  • Subscribers 79 subscribers
  • Views 1175 views
  • Users 0 members are here
Options
Related
Hints and tips
  • To quote someone's message, first select/highlight the relevant text, and then use the Quote button that appears
  • To "mention" someone, type @ followed by the start of the forum name, and choose from the list; that person will get a notification of being mentioned

Trying to Understand - is that normal?

KeyboardWorrier68

Hi,

Have been doing OK until yesterday evening when my mood took a dive and I'm now feeling quite down about things in my life (not so much as I'll do anything, don't worry).

I was talking to a work colleague about my psychotherapy sessions, telling her about my suffering with a lot of childhood anxiety. Unprompted she mentioned her friend's twin 19 year old sons who have been diagnosed with Asperger's and how they basically weren't very good at coping with life, and suggested perhaps I had something similar.

I know something I've been doing a lot is asking myself about my behaviour, going back over so much old ground trying to understand who I am, if I have any sort of ASD issues, etc, and I've read that trying to understand this and not accepting that I am just the way I am is an ASD trait. I also frequently struggle with being able to identify how I am feeling, and with making decisions, even on pretty trivial things, e.g. people get frustrated with me when they aks what I want to eat because I just reply "I'll eat anything" - they can't get that I don't have any huge preferences.

I still haven't sought a diagnosis because I keep having a few close people telling me that I am just 'uniquely me', and thus shouldn't worry, but the idea of an ASD diagnosis still keeps coming up, even if only so that I can eliminate it. Not sure that'll make me feel better though! :-(

Parents
  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Blues said:

    I scored 36 whatever that means. These tests are only a guide arent they?

    That score means that you probably have significant autistic traits. It doesn't really say much about whether you have a significant problem as it isn't really trying to measure, or identify, your problems. However, people with higher AQ scores tend to be more likely to have problems that need help.

Reply
  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Blues said:

    I scored 36 whatever that means. These tests are only a guide arent they?

    That score means that you probably have significant autistic traits. It doesn't really say much about whether you have a significant problem as it isn't really trying to measure, or identify, your problems. However, people with higher AQ scores tend to be more likely to have problems that need help.

Children
No Data