Medication?

Our young person (somewhere on the autistic spectrum) is now on a degree course at university. Friendless, but not for want of trying. High functioning and articulate but suffering terribly and for years now from 'peaks' in anxiety which manifest as tearful alternately angry and sad 'meltdowns' which revolve around whether "being good" or "being annoying" and whether 'failing' at such things will cause a withdrawal of the (guaranteed) support and love of the family.  The conversation about it can repeat for hours and hours until we're all exhausted with endless reassurance.  Recently said they'd like some mild medication to help with these episodes. (Already tried mindfulness, CBT, counselling).

Anyone have any experience of meds for this high anxiety in someone under 21? Circumstances? Type? Effectiveness? I think GPs reluctant to prescribe because of suicide risk in the age group but young one finding the intensity so hard to handle and knows it.

Thanks in anticipation.

Parents
  • Many thanks for your reply. I should have added that this isn't happening while away at uni. Only at home. Exactly as it was before going to uni - all the way through 2ndry school and foundation degree.

    It happens when back at home with mother and siblings - perceived 'ignorings', people not being (showing visually) enthusiastic enough about their interests and thoughts.

    Enjoying uni and doing well with course and on target for a 1st. Always on time with everything both personal and practical. Over fastidious if anything.

    It's this business of how people are perceiving them and trying to be 'good' so they're never 'in trouble' and no-one gets angry.

    Hope this clarifies.

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  • Many thanks for your reply. I should have added that this isn't happening while away at uni. Only at home. Exactly as it was before going to uni - all the way through 2ndry school and foundation degree.

    It happens when back at home with mother and siblings - perceived 'ignorings', people not being (showing visually) enthusiastic enough about their interests and thoughts.

    Enjoying uni and doing well with course and on target for a 1st. Always on time with everything both personal and practical. Over fastidious if anything.

    It's this business of how people are perceiving them and trying to be 'good' so they're never 'in trouble' and no-one gets angry.

    Hope this clarifies.

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