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Hi people I have been finding it difficult as I've never had the proper help and when i had the chance I kind of blew it...

anthonymarcuz

Hi people I suffer from aspergers though all my life I was bullied... I then got into the wrong crowd. 

And wasn't pointed in the right direction family have found it hard to cope with me. And when I get high rate Its hard to calm myself down. 

I wasn't ashamed of what I have. It was generally cuz I was bullied by close friends who I thought understood I now see that. 

And I wish more than anything i took the help. But so  many people was pulling me down for it. Now I've come away from them I see they just saw me as a push over. Because i always used to be so to borr money and never got it back or mentally played with. 

And I was scared of them... When I talk to my family they seem always busy. Or having ago at me as they also don't understand I've had it from both ways like family that have also bullied me. And say nasty things I feel alone in this world.... And i dont know how I can Cope with my aspergers

 Is there any advice. Or anyone that's bin through similar?

  • Welcome,

    Sorry to hear that you're having such a lousy time at the moment.  You're not alone, there are many of us here who have had to deal with loneliness and feeling like other people don't understand us, and even had people take advantage of us sometimes.

    But don't give up hope.  There is help available for people of all ages, and there's every chance that you can have another shot at the assistance you missed out on before.  I wasn't diagnosed until a few weeks ago, at age 45, and even at my age I am finding ways to turn my life around.

    You don't say how old you are, so it's hard to judge who might be the best person to help you.  Please be careful not to include private personal information, but it would be useful to let us know if you are in school still, or if you are older and have more control over your own affairs.  I have found the advice I've got here to be excellent, I hope you will too.

    Best wishes.