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I am really heavilly stressed at the moment, just seen my neighbours in my back garden. I have told them explicitly I don't want them there. When they first moved in they did it, and I called the police.

I am really angry and upset, really puts my stress and anxiety to maximum. Just to put you in the picture. I live on corner, in a detached house, with fences around my garden. Next door is and end terrace, which had an access way beside it. Many years ago, the previouse owner decided to extend in to the access way.

What has been happening is when neighbour wants to move stuff in/out of his garden. Instead of going through the house. He dismantles the fence to gain access to my garden and uses that.

I have mentioned it to my landlord, who conincendly also owns and rents the offending neighbours property.

I have to rent a large house for just me, because I need to have some private space, as this causes me a lot of distress. It has been a struggle financially, but I need to do as I know I would not be able to stay somewhere where you are very close to neighbours.

Just feeling terrible, on a Saturday when I need to take a breath to relax with all the other problems recently.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated

Thanks

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  • Best of luck with this Random. In my experience, the police are extremely variable in their ways of responding. At one end of the sclae there's nothing they can do about anything short of murder, and at the other end, the really good ones will go a long way out of their way to help.  Those at the 'good' end are, sadly, rarer than those at the useless end, in y experience. But it is nonetheless worth persevering with the police. They have weird shifts and you might get somebody completely new next time you contact them, and he/she might be brilliant. Some are.

    Again, best of luck. Neighbour problems are horrible.

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  • Best of luck with this Random. In my experience, the police are extremely variable in their ways of responding. At one end of the sclae there's nothing they can do about anything short of murder, and at the other end, the really good ones will go a long way out of their way to help.  Those at the 'good' end are, sadly, rarer than those at the useless end, in y experience. But it is nonetheless worth persevering with the police. They have weird shifts and you might get somebody completely new next time you contact them, and he/she might be brilliant. Some are.

    Again, best of luck. Neighbour problems are horrible.

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