Its been weeks since iv had a email or a phone call from any type of help i have seeked for my partner with asperger and i am at my wits end. surely there is somthing i can do to make my partners life easier?
Right now we dont live together because im at university and they would take every penny of his benifits off him because i have a student loan (not enough to live off) so i work part time to help him out finacially, and care for him as much as possible.
Hes 30 years old only diagnosed with aspergers 2 years ago and has had no help and suport since only to apply for PIP. hes strugling finacially i have to suport him the best i can aswell as myself, im afraid when i go back to uni next month i wont be able to earn enough to help him out and im despratly trying to find someone to help him with money management etc.
alot of people say his rent is to high for a single person living on benifits- it is but he will not move in to anything cheaper because it involves leaving the house.
I also need some sort of help for when he goes to court, someone prehaps to reprisent his aspergers. Last time he went to court it was for a driving offence he had no idea he commited and the court refused to believe he had aspergers and would not let him speak which caused him to have his car taken off him which was his hobbie and his life line- now he doesnt leave the house. im hopeing this time i can get someone to speak in court on his behalf about asperger as last time the court said they didnt know what aspergers was so they couldnt sympathise an they woudnt let me speak in court as i was not a professional.
Can anyone help thankyou?
