I understand very well the concept of asking for forgiveness when you have done something wrong or someone tells you that you have hurt them... but I have a lot of discomfort in saying sorry without knowing why I am apologizing... and I have the impression that it irritates the people around me. I explain that in order to sincerely apologize and not do it again, I need to know precisely why I am doing it... otherwise I apologize without even knowing why I am apologizing... But it's the same thing again and again...it's ridiculous.... I have the impression that they believe that I ask why to be sure if it's worth it for me to ask for forgiveness for it... but that's never the case.... if someone tells me that I hurt them I'll always ask for forgiveness.... but I find it useless to ask for forgiveness without even knowing what I did.... and not to be able to apologize in an appropriate way for the situation....am I alone? What do you do when it happens? I don't want to be in conflict with anyone but saying sorry without even knowing why I am sorry seems stupid and very not sincere...
