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Socialising

ChristianH

I find it incredibly difficult to socialise. I find it hard to just go to a social club of any kind. Then when I’m there I find it hard to say anything. Im lucky to say Hello and Goodbye. Anyone who makes an effort to talk to me makes me very happy.  I also hold my wee in. If I make a friend I then lose it over Facebook messenger, as I really want it to develop faster than it should. I haven’t been to a club for a while now. 

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  • Oh 100% with you on that one there, its a lot Harder to socialize with other people, thats mainly 2 things with that. Social Anxiety, and Autism. It can feel Very Difficult in that moment and time, even when you are trying to just talk to someone and connect with them on stuff you enjoy and like. 

    I have the same problem were i cannot just go out and talk to someone and when i do its a supper Awkward Interaction as im always then overthinking the worst from that Connection we just had of, does he actually care? is he actually Enjoying the conversations we are having or is he just doing it for a laugh at me? so i Totally get were your coming from and how you feel about socializing with others.

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  • Oh 100% with you on that one there, its a lot Harder to socialize with other people, thats mainly 2 things with that. Social Anxiety, and Autism. It can feel Very Difficult in that moment and time, even when you are trying to just talk to someone and connect with them on stuff you enjoy and like. 

    I have the same problem were i cannot just go out and talk to someone and when i do its a supper Awkward Interaction as im always then overthinking the worst from that Connection we just had of, does he actually care? is he actually Enjoying the conversations we are having or is he just doing it for a laugh at me? so i Totally get were your coming from and how you feel about socializing with others.

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