Decision making and commitment

Hello Slight smile

Does anyone else have serious problems with making decisions and committing to those decisions? I'm not just talking about what to have for dinner, which is a daily struggle by the way. I'm talking about big life decisions. I cannot make them. 

I'm now in my mid thirties stuck in a dead end job because I cannot decide what career I actually want to commit to. I've thought about every career under the sun. I've applied for things and been offered things. I had a place to do teacher training a few years ago but backed out before accepting. Yesterday I was hovering over the apply button for an MA law conversion course and today I've changed my mind. I can't carry on like this as I don't earn enough to live in the job that I'm in. I also hate it. I need to commit to something that will pay me a proper wage, especially as a single person with no second income to rely on. But the part of me that makes decisions just seems to be broken. There is absolutely no support out there. I have trawled through the NAS list of therapists and have seen a few different ones none of whom have been able to help me. I feel like I can't be helped and I am just going to continue simple existing until I expire.

Sorry to be such a Debbie downer! 

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