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Feeling alone in a group

Magnolia1

I was invited to a BBQ. I knew some people there but not everyone.  I had a few one to one conversations. I sat by myself and ate some food. A few people came & spoke to me but I just felt like I was keeping them away from others.  I left after 1.5 hours. I felt more alone among people then I do at home alone.

It makes me wonder if I should bother again but I also have moments where I feel horribly alone at home. I dont have anyone there just for me. 

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  • Thats a familiar feeling, I've felt lonelier in crowds and groups of people than I do on my own, so much so that I've often wondered if I'm really a ghost haunting my life, so many people literally don't see me, I've had coats thrown over me in pubs and clubs, because peole haven't realised I'm there.

    I don't bother anymore, it would be nice to have someone to go places with, but one of us ends up annoyed with the other, for taking to long or not long enough.

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  • Thats a familiar feeling, I've felt lonelier in crowds and groups of people than I do on my own, so much so that I've often wondered if I'm really a ghost haunting my life, so many people literally don't see me, I've had coats thrown over me in pubs and clubs, because peole haven't realised I'm there.

    I don't bother anymore, it would be nice to have someone to go places with, but one of us ends up annoyed with the other, for taking to long or not long enough.

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