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So, this morning I had a long PIP assessment call to discuss all the medical stuff that has gone on. So now I cant help but keep thinking about it and that I wouldnt have got across the whole situation. I know its no use second guessing, I'm usually paranoid anyway without thinking how the way they ask might be portayed. I had previously applied unsucessfully with medical conditions before the asd diagnosis. They arent here to see the anxiety and fatigue that that alone has caused. I've worked 40 yrs and dont think I'm a fraud.

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  • I can understand why you feel paranoid about this. The whole system creates paranoia- in fact I think it’s deliberately designed to do that. You did everything you could, you did your best, and you can do no more. It’s a hostile system. It’s out of your control at this point - and you never know - it might all work out ok. Try to mentally surrender to the fact that it’s now out of your hands - because stressing over it won’t make any difference - apart from just making you feel worse.  

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  • I can understand why you feel paranoid about this. The whole system creates paranoia- in fact I think it’s deliberately designed to do that. You did everything you could, you did your best, and you can do no more. It’s a hostile system. It’s out of your control at this point - and you never know - it might all work out ok. Try to mentally surrender to the fact that it’s now out of your hands - because stressing over it won’t make any difference - apart from just making you feel worse.  

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