Hi all, a number of you have very kindly helped me recently when i was in the early days of my husband suddenly ending our fifteen year marriage. I am still navigating it and I am finding it really hard. We have essentially not communicated and he wants everything to go through the solicitors. Is there anyone who has suddenly ended a relationship who might be able to tell me how it is 'from the other side'. There were (to me) no obvious signs other than I was aware that we were both experiencing stress. I had just had my own diagnosis and I was reeling from that. iIn retrospect i can see that we had a 'perfect storm' of stressors and I feel terrible that I did not see the signs that he was struggling. I know if is a big ask but i would very much appreciate anyone willing to share either in a private message or on here, what the mechanism was and whether there is any hope of any kind reconnection somewhere in the future? I miss my husband terribly - i miss his friendship more than i can say. I know that everyone on here is an individual and it might not be the same for everyone but i am desperate to have more of an understanding of the situation. I would very much appreciate any help.
