Early signs of autism in low support needs adults? Freaking out before assessment.

Hi guys! I'm thinking about getting assessed for autism and the main part I'm really hung up on is the early signs. I didn't really seem like a very autistic baby, but started showing lots of signs by age 4. I was a sensory seeker as an infant and had a love of spoons where I would hold them and look at them. I also used to cry when I couldn't express my ideas, as I was a slightly late talker but was still within the normal range. By age 4, I had strong food sensory aversions, was referred to an SLP for pragmatic communication issues, had very literal communication, struggled to make friends and understand social rules, was a diagnosed sensory seeker, and had black & white perfectionistic thinking. I also had chewlery & was stimming by then as well. 

However, I was great at imaginative play, and would often play with my brother. I was a bit bossy at times and would complain that the other kids were doing it wrong but had good play skills in general. For example, I would yell at my brother for passing the ball the wrong way or would yell at my dance class when people turned the wrong way. I was also very hyperempathetic and personified my dolls. I had to put them to bed because I couldn't handle them being in a box.

Also, I have always had great eye contact and have always been affectively expressive. 

  1. Is this enough early developmental history? Or I guess has anyone been diagnosed with this type or amount of history? I'm worried about wasting my money if I won't qualify. 
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  • Can I ask, why do you put effort into freaking out? You are what you are. Being assessed and given a "label" doesn’t change who or what you are. Put it another way, (although not applicable to you as you are female). I was assessed for colour blindness many years ago. There was a reason associated with my work. If I was colour blind, it would have cost me that job because the job actually required being able to identify different coloured wires. By contrast being autistic doesn’t exclude you from anything or anywhere. Having an assessment helps you understand yourself and explain why some things happen as they do. Knowing yourself allows you to focus on your strengths and make choices that play to them instead of trying to make up for things you are not good at.

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  • Can I ask, why do you put effort into freaking out? You are what you are. Being assessed and given a "label" doesn’t change who or what you are. Put it another way, (although not applicable to you as you are female). I was assessed for colour blindness many years ago. There was a reason associated with my work. If I was colour blind, it would have cost me that job because the job actually required being able to identify different coloured wires. By contrast being autistic doesn’t exclude you from anything or anywhere. Having an assessment helps you understand yourself and explain why some things happen as they do. Knowing yourself allows you to focus on your strengths and make choices that play to them instead of trying to make up for things you are not good at.

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