Has anybody being told that you are Autistic but not disabled.

Hi,

I am a 39 year old female who was diagnosed with Autism back in June 2025. My GP recently referred me to a social worker but I unfortunately I got rejected. I was told that I am Autistic but not disabled. 

Has this ever happen to anybody before?

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  • Maybe for some people 'mild' disability does not count as a disability? I red once, that autism alone is not a reason to consider someone automatically disabled. I feel a bit disabled when having to interact with others. I'm lost, like a child in a fog. But I have no issues with basic daily finctioning- I can cook, clean, I work, I'm married and I have a child. There is a social worker coming to us and she helps me with my daughter. She helps me recognise my daughters feelings and intentions. I get this help despite not having a diagnosis- the teachers in the nursery noticed problems with my daughter's behaviour and I applied and received help from the state. It's very important for me. I fear that one day my daughter will become adult while I will still stay myself.

    I'm bot sure if I would be considered disabled or not, it's not that obvious in me and not do visible. I just appear shy or weird.

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  • Maybe for some people 'mild' disability does not count as a disability? I red once, that autism alone is not a reason to consider someone automatically disabled. I feel a bit disabled when having to interact with others. I'm lost, like a child in a fog. But I have no issues with basic daily finctioning- I can cook, clean, I work, I'm married and I have a child. There is a social worker coming to us and she helps me with my daughter. She helps me recognise my daughters feelings and intentions. I get this help despite not having a diagnosis- the teachers in the nursery noticed problems with my daughter's behaviour and I applied and received help from the state. It's very important for me. I fear that one day my daughter will become adult while I will still stay myself.

    I'm bot sure if I would be considered disabled or not, it's not that obvious in me and not do visible. I just appear shy or weird.

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