Please Help Me... (Housing - benefits)

My anxiety is skyrocketing at the moment due to housing issues.

I have lived with my mum and step-dad for the past 8 years or so.

My mother is a Methodist Minister, and housing is provided integrally to this job.

She has been assigned a new manse along with a change of location.

The new location will not be appropriate for me to live in - it is too small.

I also do not want to move away from this area, which has been a base for nearly 20 years.

For a long time a local organisation have been promising that autism appropriate accommodation would be available imminently.

They knew that the start of August 2014 was my deadline for moving out, ever since my initial application, which must be at least 18 months ago now, maybe 2 years or even longer.

Only now, at short notice have they confirmed that they in fact do not have any autism appropriate vacancies available, nor will they at any time in the forseeable future.

Up until this point they had always presented a rosey outlook on the availability of their services.

As such I am suddenly left in the lurch, struggling to source a local autism appropriate property, together with dealing with all benefits related issues and so-on, then move out, all within a time frame of weeks.

It is going ok I guess, I have a social worker assigned to me, and I also have the involvement of a local autism specialist charity.

My big problem at the moment revolves around housing benefits.

A disability advice organisation has told me that I can get housing benefits up to the amount of the average price of the average comparable property rate.

When I pheond the council helpline the council say I can only get the shared rate - around £58 per week.

I've only found one property that I could afford with that, and it seemed entirely inappropriate - I am quite scared by the idea of living there at the moment.

I have viewed at least 2 properties at about £80-90 mark that seem ok - there seem to be quite a lot locally, it is just the money that is the issue.

I am on ESA, I also claim low rate moblity DLA, but I am studying and still paying for that.

I think I might be able to top up my rent about £10 a week but I would struggle with much more than that.

I thought my social worker might help with all of this but at the moment he seems to have left it to me - with the help of my charity support workers.

I discovered Discretionary Housing Payments with an application form on the council website.

Do you think that this is what the Disability Advice organisation was referring to?

Please - what are other peoples experiences and knowledge around this area?

I would greatly appreciate it if somebody could share. The thought of being homeless, or in horrible housing is terrifying me - it is so frustrating that nobody seems to be able to help me or give me a straight answer.

I am just going round in circles and I can feel it making me quite ill.

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    A flying fortress would surely be far more scary and alien than an ordinary bus!

    Your anxiety is a state of mind that you have obtained as a consequence of your ASD. It is not part of you or your ASD. i believe that you can tackle the anxiety and regain control of your life. This isn't easy and it won't happen overnight but it is possible.

    if you regard every bus ride as an opportunity for failure then you will be able to find failure in every journey. If you regard it as an opportunity for success, but accept that some of the journeys are failures, then you could start accumulating successes that will encourage you to succeed again. It is ok to fail, everyone has some sort of failure every day. At the same time we all have little successes that we often ignore.

    You have succeeded in getting a lot of information about the benefits system. You have succeeded in finding some accomodation that looks suitable. You have succeeded in making your question very clear in this thread. You have succeeded in your volunteering work at the community centre. Every day you are learning and building your knowledge.

    i don't think you should just jump on a bus and grit your teeth and hope for the best. This would clearly be a project where you would have to work out ways and means of making it possible without ignoring your fears and reasons why it might be hard.

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    A flying fortress would surely be far more scary and alien than an ordinary bus!

    Your anxiety is a state of mind that you have obtained as a consequence of your ASD. It is not part of you or your ASD. i believe that you can tackle the anxiety and regain control of your life. This isn't easy and it won't happen overnight but it is possible.

    if you regard every bus ride as an opportunity for failure then you will be able to find failure in every journey. If you regard it as an opportunity for success, but accept that some of the journeys are failures, then you could start accumulating successes that will encourage you to succeed again. It is ok to fail, everyone has some sort of failure every day. At the same time we all have little successes that we often ignore.

    You have succeeded in getting a lot of information about the benefits system. You have succeeded in finding some accomodation that looks suitable. You have succeeded in making your question very clear in this thread. You have succeeded in your volunteering work at the community centre. Every day you are learning and building your knowledge.

    i don't think you should just jump on a bus and grit your teeth and hope for the best. This would clearly be a project where you would have to work out ways and means of making it possible without ignoring your fears and reasons why it might be hard.

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