Moving houses

I am coming with a lot of questions to this community and I am sorry if I don’t always or at all respond to your responses but I am very grateful to have found this place! 

Today, I am feeling overwhelm and don’t know where to go with this. I am returning to a flat after the Christmas holidays that my partner and I are leaving in 2 weeks (the reasons are complex but long story short, it wasn’t our choice per se to leave) and we move into a new place then (same-ish area). I thought that moving on to the new home after the flat was spoiled for us would be what I was looking for, but now coming back, I can only see the logistics of moving, losing what we have atm, chaos and having to arrange everything again (we just moved a year ago) in the new place. This all will need to happen alongside working from “home” (?!) and I am dreading my job atm anyway. I don’t know how to navigate this, I hate chaos and losing a safe place to be. 

(PS: Happy new year - may 2026 be a good/ better one for everyone)

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  • I've spent quite a few years living in rented houses and having to move often, it's horrible, just when you start to feel settled you've got to pack up and move again, it's very unsettling.

    I've had 18 years now where I've only moved once, I'd hate to go back to feeling so insecure again.

    ((hugs)) to you.

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  • I've spent quite a few years living in rented houses and having to move often, it's horrible, just when you start to feel settled you've got to pack up and move again, it's very unsettling.

    I've had 18 years now where I've only moved once, I'd hate to go back to feeling so insecure again.

    ((hugs)) to you.

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