Articulate?

I just reread the original post.

Being articulate has some importance because the world runs on communication. There's a limit to what can be achieved by one person, so teams are needed, which means they need to talk. At higher levels deals are done between people. You might buy a phone online, but businesses don't do multi-million deals like this. Also companies don't sign things, people do.

So communication counts. But plenty of people are not as competent as they appear.  Also, like with anything, words can have specific meanings. So different areas have their own vocabulary. To do medicine you need to know the right words, same for finance, computing, etc.

If you don't have the right vocabulary people don't listen, even if you are right.

But this just gets you a chance to show what you can do, you also have to able. A doctor that sounds good won't last very long if they are always wrong, same for a salesperson, or senior manager, no matter how well the speak. They can sound good for only so long before results count.

Being very able can work even if you are not a great communicator, but you need to be technically good or a great artist it musician, or similar.

Attitude normally means you are either unhelpful/uncooperative or too assertive. This can be a defensive position, consciously or unconsciously. If you are tired most people are also more snappy or in a bad mood. Which has the same effect. If disregulated you can be more sensitive to criticism, less able to negotiate or be flexible, and argumentative.

HSP applies to about 1 in 6 to 1 in 5 people. It is not a disorder. It should be possible find other similar people as it is not that rate. I am not sure how you tell though.

HSP are not constrained by routines and understand social interactions and social rules intuitively. Some interactions may cause over stimulation. So mixing should be possible without too much trouble in calm environments.

HSP is different to autism, even if some similarities exist, but the underlying mechanism differs.

I just reread the original post.

Being articulate has some importance because the world runs on communication. There's a limit to what can be achieved by one person, so teams are needed, which means they need to talk. At higher levels deals are done between people. You might buy a phone online, but businesses don't do multi-million deals like this. Also companies don't sign things, people do.

So communication counts. But plenty of people are not as competent as they appear.  Also, like with anything, words can have specific meanings. So different areas have their own vocabulary. To do medicine you need to know the right words, same for finance, computing, etc.

If you don't have the right vocabulary people don't listen, even if you are right.

But this just gets you a chance to show what you can do, you also have to able. A doctor that sounds good won't last very long if they are always wrong, same for a salesperson, or senior manager, no matter how well the speak. They can sound good for only so long before results count.

Being very able can work even if you are not a great communicator, but you need to be technically good or a great artist it musician, or similar.

Attitude normally means you are either unhelpful/uncooperative or too assertive. This can be a defensive position, consciously or unconsciously. If you are tired most people are also more snappy or in a bad mood. Which has the same effect. If disregulated you can be more sensitive to criticism, less able to negotiate or be flexible, and argumentative.

HSP applies to about 1 in 6 to 1 in 5 people. It is not a disorder. It should be possible find other similar people as it is not that rate. I am not sure how you tell though.

HSP are not constrained by routines and understand social interactions and social rules intuitively. Some interactions may cause over stimulation. So mixing should be possible without too much trouble in calm environments.

HSP is different to autism, even if some similarities exist, but the underlying mechanism differs.

I am curious to know where our attitude comes from.