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Memory

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As I've aged (I am now over 60) my older memories have become much more intense and I'm remembering things I'd previously forgotten.

In fact, I feel haunted by my past and often can't stop thinking about it, especially my childhood.

I've read in the past about memory in autism being different and I'm unsure whether it's to do with this or whether this is a usual thing as people age.

I've talked to people older than me and they often talk about the past but I don't know whether this is because of mental decline, and short term memory failing.

Does anyone else experience what I have described above.

Any ideas what it might be related to?

Thanks.

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  • Another thing that comes to mind and is related to this is nostalgia.

    I wonder whether a good memory for certain experiences in our lives, or perhaps a certain type of memory (for example I remember tastes and smells) influences a tendency to nostalgia.

    Nostalgia for me equates to a positive memory and a yearning for the past, which isn't what I'm meaning in my O/P.

    Attachment to objects could also be tied into this.

  • in reply to B

    I've started asking myself why I need to remember certain things when they come up and bite me, I've come to the conclusion that a part of me is so used to worry and stressing about everything that I dig this stuff up because I don't know how to switch it off. I do worry about not worrying too, as so often in the past when I've let go and trusted I've been dumped on from a great height, this has made me wary about not worrying and remembering because it feels like a dnager signal in itself.

    I don't do nostalgia, for me its a negative thing.

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  • in reply to B

    I've started asking myself why I need to remember certain things when they come up and bite me, I've come to the conclusion that a part of me is so used to worry and stressing about everything that I dig this stuff up because I don't know how to switch it off. I do worry about not worrying too, as so often in the past when I've let go and trusted I've been dumped on from a great height, this has made me wary about not worrying and remembering because it feels like a dnager signal in itself.

    I don't do nostalgia, for me its a negative thing.

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