Un-Masking (Advice please)

I would like to ask about peoples experiences of unmasking, aiming to unmask fully. For the reason of improving health and wellbeing. And how this feels or what improved, or worsened because of this.

Without wanting to go into any conspiracy theories, there is a part of me that there are bad actor normies scheming around us alll the time. This include those who might exploit people with autism to further their aims or neurotype beliefs. Part of me also sees a massive social media drive to encourage more people to unmask, I'm not sure who this benefits unless it is totally self initiated. 

Do other people need to know you have unmasked? Have you asked for support? Are the external changes noticable mainly to you or are the internal benefits of doing this commented on by others. Does unmasking also require a degree of disclosure to others, or does another level of masking occur if you don't fully disclose it?!!

I asked ai about it and it said suggested: 'selective unmasking and using scripts to reduce social effort' which seems to be what people who mask are doing to some extent. 

  • 100% discrimination is the reason I write this, as masking is primarily a defence against bullying. I didn't want my concerns to sound overblown, but I feel suddenly changing behaviours might be interpreted as disclosure. I just want to have a better sense that I have control over this. But as masking seems to be a bit a of control issue, a gradual unmasking in private first or with those who know me might be better.

  • Yeah I wouldn’t say I 100% have unmasked. But I have ensured that those close to me - both at home and at work - are aware of my diagnosis so that I can be free to unmask around them. When I’m interacting with people I’m unfamiliar with is when the mask goes on.

    This include those who might exploit people with autism

    Yeah I get this. I have been very afraid of being bullied for being Autistic, especially since I live in the American Midwest where there is a lot of misconceptions about Autism. That’s why it’s probably for the best to not completely abandon the mask, but still ensure that there are times when you can safely be your authentic self.