Solo travelling and Airports

Hello Everyone !

I will soon be travelling by plane for the first time on my own. I wondered whether anyone had any experience or advice to give? 

I'm extremely nervous and have been having nightmares about it for weeks. It's mostly the airport environment and process (and the fear of getting lost) that is stressing me out most. Also the waiting around will make my anxiety build and where I am at most risk of shutdowns and meltdowns. 

I have contacted both airports I will be travelling from/to, but I am still waiting for their response. I am looking into booking assisted support and I will wear my sunflower lanyard. 

Are airports supportive and understanding towards autistic adults? 

What things help you remain calm and comfortable?

I plan on taking a copy of my diagnosis letter as I worry the staff will question me because I mask well. 

I would be very grateful for any advice . Thank you!  

Parents
  • If you've travelled on a plane with others, then it will be about the same, just more boring. Arrive early, so you can take your time, as that will ease the anxiety about getting lost (probably more than the waiting-around will cause it).

    Bring a small rucksack with all your essentials (one you can store at your feet on the plane). Include safe foods, hand sanitiser, headphones, books, phone charger, stim toys, sunflower lanyard, tissues, wipes, small towel, etc. Find a nice corner to wait in near the gate. Do a bit of people-watching, or keep your head down (as you prefer). Something like a baseball cap might help you regulate your visual field. Don't forget to breathe if you feel a little anxious.

    At the other end of your flight, just follow the crowd getting off your plane and you won't get lost.

    Most airports provide assistance to travellers who have support needs. If you fear getting lost, ask to have someone guide you through the airport to your gate. This service doesn't just apply to people in wheelchairs. (You're looking into this already, but support should be available.) Some airports also have sensory rooms that you can book ahead of time and just hang out there while you wait.

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  • If you've travelled on a plane with others, then it will be about the same, just more boring. Arrive early, so you can take your time, as that will ease the anxiety about getting lost (probably more than the waiting-around will cause it).

    Bring a small rucksack with all your essentials (one you can store at your feet on the plane). Include safe foods, hand sanitiser, headphones, books, phone charger, stim toys, sunflower lanyard, tissues, wipes, small towel, etc. Find a nice corner to wait in near the gate. Do a bit of people-watching, or keep your head down (as you prefer). Something like a baseball cap might help you regulate your visual field. Don't forget to breathe if you feel a little anxious.

    At the other end of your flight, just follow the crowd getting off your plane and you won't get lost.

    Most airports provide assistance to travellers who have support needs. If you fear getting lost, ask to have someone guide you through the airport to your gate. This service doesn't just apply to people in wheelchairs. (You're looking into this already, but support should be available.) Some airports also have sensory rooms that you can book ahead of time and just hang out there while you wait.

Children
  • Hi Damojo, thank you for your reply and advice! It's been a over 5 years since I went on a flight and the last time wasn't a great experience. I'm also scared I'll have a panic attack and not be able to calm myself without my best friend. I wish I didn't have to travel alone. thank you again for your reply, it is very helpful :)