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Hello everybody :) I'm Rachel and I would just like to talk about my experiences of living on the spectrum and if you would share your thoughts on how you cope if you expereience similar thinha to me. It would be greatly appreciated.

I havent had an actualy diagnosis but a lot of people who have had many years expereience working with autism recognised the signs in me within the first few weeks of meeting me, these people were my college tutors. I like to stick to routine I need to always know what I'm going to be doing and how I'm going to do it, I once walked into one of my classes and the chairs were set out different and I had a panic attack where I couldn't remain in the classroom and had to have time-out which lasted 45 minutes, I have sensory difficulties which include electronic constand noises such as beeping or ringing and I dont like people shouting at me, I need to have things that match and are in order date wise or size wise, I like to line things up so they are nice and neat I have social difficulties which include going to new places and meeting new people I struggle with basic conversation with people who I've never met, I dont like people sat behind me I like to see whats going on, I need space sometimea to overcome all the above, I dont like people touching me who I dont know or having people too close whether I know them or not depends what mood I'm in, I struggle with eye contact with everybody and I struggle to understand some things that all of my friends can uderstand and just get on with it. I've said all this because I want to know if anyone on here is similar and how they cope, my tutors said mild aspergers and now I think about it it makes more sense everyday. Thankyou! 

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Hi Suri,

    it certainly takes a bit of getting used to! I was diagnosed 2months ago but had been reading about it and wondering about it for about 6 months before. When i got the official diagnosis it was a tremendous relief as i could really start to understand the conflict and confusion that had kept happening for the prevous 56 years.

    i felt strange to think that i am wired differently to most people! But, we are in good company. Einstein, Newton and lots of famous scientists were/are wired this way too! 

    My main advice at this point is that you can start to relax and start to work out how to deal with "normal" people with more understanding of how they differ from us. 

    How and why did you get to your diagnosis?

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Hi Suri,

    it certainly takes a bit of getting used to! I was diagnosed 2months ago but had been reading about it and wondering about it for about 6 months before. When i got the official diagnosis it was a tremendous relief as i could really start to understand the conflict and confusion that had kept happening for the prevous 56 years.

    i felt strange to think that i am wired differently to most people! But, we are in good company. Einstein, Newton and lots of famous scientists were/are wired this way too! 

    My main advice at this point is that you can start to relax and start to work out how to deal with "normal" people with more understanding of how they differ from us. 

    How and why did you get to your diagnosis?

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