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Hello everybody :) I'm Rachel and I would just like to talk about my experiences of living on the spectrum and if you would share your thoughts on how you cope if you expereience similar thinha to me. It would be greatly appreciated.

I havent had an actualy diagnosis but a lot of people who have had many years expereience working with autism recognised the signs in me within the first few weeks of meeting me, these people were my college tutors. I like to stick to routine I need to always know what I'm going to be doing and how I'm going to do it, I once walked into one of my classes and the chairs were set out different and I had a panic attack where I couldn't remain in the classroom and had to have time-out which lasted 45 minutes, I have sensory difficulties which include electronic constand noises such as beeping or ringing and I dont like people shouting at me, I need to have things that match and are in order date wise or size wise, I like to line things up so they are nice and neat I have social difficulties which include going to new places and meeting new people I struggle with basic conversation with people who I've never met, I dont like people sat behind me I like to see whats going on, I need space sometimea to overcome all the above, I dont like people touching me who I dont know or having people too close whether I know them or not depends what mood I'm in, I struggle with eye contact with everybody and I struggle to understand some things that all of my friends can uderstand and just get on with it. I've said all this because I want to know if anyone on here is similar and how they cope, my tutors said mild aspergers and now I think about it it makes more sense everyday. Thankyou! 

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  • Hello, I felt the same but I also felt upset when my tutors said they noticed within the first few weeks of meeting me but you have to think of the postives, depending on where abouts on the spectrum you are meaning either it's controlable or its gets in the way of your life a lot, just try an accept it, they are a lot of postives to having aspergers, I tend to think of myself a perfectionist and in the last year my work at college has been brilliant because it wasnt possible for me to hand work in late or miss things out that I had to put in, I notice a lot of things that nobody else does.

    I see that I'm a lot more understanding than most people my age and I tend to question just about everything which can get on peoples nerves but they get it, you can see your GP and ask to point you in the right direction for support groups as some people on here tend to take a while to reply back if your really struggle. Its a really postive thing being diagnosed I can image its allowed you understand why you do the things you do, as long as your happy with doing things in certain rountines then theres nothing to be confused about. Let the people you know cloestest to you so they understand and you'll find your life will be much easier :) 

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  • Hello, I felt the same but I also felt upset when my tutors said they noticed within the first few weeks of meeting me but you have to think of the postives, depending on where abouts on the spectrum you are meaning either it's controlable or its gets in the way of your life a lot, just try an accept it, they are a lot of postives to having aspergers, I tend to think of myself a perfectionist and in the last year my work at college has been brilliant because it wasnt possible for me to hand work in late or miss things out that I had to put in, I notice a lot of things that nobody else does.

    I see that I'm a lot more understanding than most people my age and I tend to question just about everything which can get on peoples nerves but they get it, you can see your GP and ask to point you in the right direction for support groups as some people on here tend to take a while to reply back if your really struggle. Its a really postive thing being diagnosed I can image its allowed you understand why you do the things you do, as long as your happy with doing things in certain rountines then theres nothing to be confused about. Let the people you know cloestest to you so they understand and you'll find your life will be much easier :) 

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