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Doing the right thing for me

190E(Taylor’s version)

So made a decision today to end my relationship but im being treated like im just saying it out of anger but im not it’s best for all of us if I get my own place and focus on me if I see my partner as just a friend which is what it has been since before Christmas anyway and spend dedicated days wirh the kids I’ll have more focused time for each task 

also i cant keep being told to stop or *** up anymore when I’m mid meltodown being told to shut up when I’m simply saying I might go on a train day out or I might support a cause or what ever 

I even get uninterested oks when I tell her what’s happening in my very limited friend group when I only see these people once a week for 3 hours if im lucky 

I need to be entering my self care era 

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  • If a relationship dosen't work, then it dosen't work. Could it be contributing to your meltdowns? Going on what you say, it's sounds as though your partner dosen't listen to you or take you seriously.

    Maybe go to some couples counselling even at this late stage, if nothing else they'll help to manage the break up and try to keep things civil and help you both to understand whats gone wrong and why, which is a good base for moving forward

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  • If a relationship dosen't work, then it dosen't work. Could it be contributing to your meltdowns? Going on what you say, it's sounds as though your partner dosen't listen to you or take you seriously.

    Maybe go to some couples counselling even at this late stage, if nothing else they'll help to manage the break up and try to keep things civil and help you both to understand whats gone wrong and why, which is a good base for moving forward

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