Trigger warning (sexual themes)Sex snd autisim

Does anyone else feel Sex and masterbation are possibly more of an important thing when you have autism 

luckily ive never had any issues with hyper sexuality or anything inappropriate but I do find that when I get comfortable in a relationship that Sex becomes a thing it almost acts as a way to help regulate me (as well as other things snd done in moderation)

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I find masterbation does this less for me now that I have an active sex life but sometimes it’s the only option becuase obviously sex should be a two way thing that both partners want 

i also heard fetishes are more likely in autistics and I have a few(fairly vanilla ones that most partners have been fine with) and if anything I wouldn’t have it any diffenet as it’s all sensory things 

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my sexual feelings once led me to the realisation I didn’t love one of my exs anymore as sex had lost it’s fun and it was hard to even prepare for it

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not sure how much of that rektales to autisim but I think wihout all of that i may not I’d met my oartnet who ive been with for 15 years so thank you weird sexuality for helping me find happiness haha 

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  • I find masturbation to be the only satisfying form of sex and I don’t like sex with other people at all (men or women, although a cuddle Hugging is lush). I don’t like being observed undressed and I don’t really  like touching other people with bare skin, I have only had one long term relationship and before that I think I only dated people because I wanted to fit in and be ‘normal’. I have never been someone who  men fancy but a few women have said I’m hot face with hand over mouth. I just don’t get it at all. 

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  • I find masturbation to be the only satisfying form of sex and I don’t like sex with other people at all (men or women, although a cuddle Hugging is lush). I don’t like being observed undressed and I don’t really  like touching other people with bare skin, I have only had one long term relationship and before that I think I only dated people because I wanted to fit in and be ‘normal’. I have never been someone who  men fancy but a few women have said I’m hot face with hand over mouth. I just don’t get it at all. 

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