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Risk aversion

aurelis

Life is about taking risks and seizing opportunities. I find myself feel as if I’m avoiding taking risks all the time, but still impulsive enough to put myself in situations that don’t suit me. It’s a weird contradiction.

There’s my thoughts and opinions, which I feel as if have lost their sharpness, and it feels more of a situation of code switching to the environment. I hide opinions I feel will be a burden to others and try to comfort everyone’s needs, and the perception that I haven’t suited everyone’s needs in the past keep me in a state of self-hate. 

Good thing is that I’m slowly starting to face these things. It’s so difficult, and it’s hard to convey to people what I want to say, rather than the polished version of events. I guess we keep on moving.

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  • Yes, the man that made no mistake made nothing.

    My whole life was dealing with Family Members who 'Don't want anything bad happening' because they 'think the World' of me . :rollseyes

    The Troubles, plus the Claim Culture in this country, sends everyone doolally. People are, like, "Hold on to your Money!" while they live in big grand houses. We definitely live in a Woman's World. Kids, and young Men, have to be kpet under lock-and-key. We're too scared to live, and too afraid to die.

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  • Yes, the man that made no mistake made nothing.

    My whole life was dealing with Family Members who 'Don't want anything bad happening' because they 'think the World' of me . :rollseyes

    The Troubles, plus the Claim Culture in this country, sends everyone doolally. People are, like, "Hold on to your Money!" while they live in big grand houses. We definitely live in a Woman's World. Kids, and young Men, have to be kpet under lock-and-key. We're too scared to live, and too afraid to die.

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