Friendliness and friendship

There might be a male/female difference on this one.

I like to talk if I am not distracted or stressed and in a quietish environment.

I have been withdrawing for a long time. I think trauma has been a factor and overload.

I used to want to talk about things of substance but after some therapy I am better about talking about myself and feelings, those that I have. I actually find that I am interested in relationships, how they work. Better late than never.

Would never have overshared till a few months ago, now I need to watch myself.

Companionship is something too. But it seems scary, depending on what you mean. Emotional neglect and a previous relationship has caused me issues.

There might be a male/female difference on this one.

I like to talk if I am not distracted or stressed and in a quietish environment.

I have been withdrawing for a long time. I think trauma has been a factor and overload.

I used to want to talk about things of substance but after some therapy I am better about talking about myself and feelings, those that I have. I actually find that I am interested in relationships, how they work. Better late than never.

Would never have overshared till a few months ago, now I need to watch myself.

Companionship is something too. But it seems scary, depending on what you mean. Emotional neglect and a previous relationship has caused me issues.

Hello Stuart333, i find talking one to one easier, and agree its better when its quieter.  Youve given me food for thought when you mentioned the topic of emotional neglect.   Identifying emotions can seem tricky sometimes.

I found the book on non violent communication by Marshall Rosenberg interesting for some insight on communicating needs and feelings.   I havent found a book on autism and managing emotions yet.