Not diagnosed with autism

I am 49 and recently went for my autism assessment and they have rung me this week to say I don't fit the criteria as I can communicate well, understand and use body language and have good eye contact.

It baffles me that in 3 hours of questioning they can just say that. 

Surly they should know that after a lifetime of masking some people can do quite well at acting the correct way.

Does the way adults are assessed need to be look at to reflect years of masking.

Parents
  • Hi and welcome to to the community. I'm sorry to hear about your experience with the assessment - others have posted the same story on here from time to time. It was one of the reasons I decided not to pursue a formal diagnosis and stay self discovered. 

    Just be reassured that you are still very welcome here.

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  • Hi and welcome to to the community. I'm sorry to hear about your experience with the assessment - others have posted the same story on here from time to time. It was one of the reasons I decided not to pursue a formal diagnosis and stay self discovered. 

    Just be reassured that you are still very welcome here.

Children