I just have a quick question for the group about demand avoidant behaviour and employment.
I am currently applying for part time jobs. I have had a couple of very positive interviews. Whilst waiting for the results however I am constantly panicking that I might actually be offered them! It occurred to me this is demand avoidant behaviour. I am panicking about the potential demands that will be made on me should I get the job. In this instance how on earth do I know if I actually want the job? Beyond just needing the money obviously.
I am finding it actually very hard to understand myself in this situation and know how I actually feel about a particular workplace, its people and the work tasks and whether I want to accept.
Has anyone else felt like this and do you have any advice?
Always grateful, Tink
