Hi everyone,
I'm a 30-year-old autistic man living in Northern Ireland, and I'm in a really stressful and uncertain housing situation. I’m hoping others here have been through something similar and can offer insight or reassurance.
Right now, I’ve been told I have to leave the house I’m currently in. My landlord plans to clear out the property, and I’ve been given notice — officially by July 31st, though I can stay physically until the end of August. I’m completely overwhelmed.
I'm working with Autism Initiatives – they sent a referral on my behalf, and I’m supposed to have a meeting Monday or Tuesday, but it’s not clear yet what that will lead to. I’ve heard they’ve helped others get housing or support, but I haven’t started with them properly yet. I’m also linked in with NIHE, and my housing officer (Daniel) will likely interview me soon.
A few of my concerns:
I live alone and don’t do well in shared environments like hostels. I'm terrified I’ll be forced into one.
I have autism and mental health challenges, and I need a quiet, stable space – ideally a supported or single-let setup.
I have a cat named Basil who means the world to me, and I’m scared of losing him through this upheaval.
I’m unsure what kind of points I’ll get on the housing list, and if autism counts as a learning difficulty for points.
I’ve listed my GP (Bovally) and been honest on the referral forms about everything, including mental health.
Has anyone here been through this with Autism Initiatives or NIHE?
Did they help you avoid a hostel?
How long did things take once the ball started rolling?
I’m genuinely trying to stay hopeful, but it’s very hard. I just want a roof over my head, support, and to keep Basil with me. Any advice, experiences, or even just some kind words would help.
