Hiya
I just want to make sure I’m not overreacting and that others have this experience.
I’ve been feeling so frustrated recently, at first it was just a couple of people and a few things but now it’s just escalating and I’m trying so so hard not to snap but this one person is constantly going on about this one thing I’m incredibly happy for her because I know it’s been hard for her but she’s been going on about this 1 thing every day for the last 6 months and there’s only so much I can put up with. Then she’s admitted to enjoying telling me the gory details that gross me out because of my reaction. The heck? I’m supposed to be taking on her job role when she goes and she’s withholding information from me. Is constantly making conversations about her. No one else is allowed to have issues because of what she’s going through (She’s pregnant by choice she wanted this) but now there’s this other team that I also support (I’m an admin and can do both departments) there’s hostility between the 2 teams and I’m stuck in the middle. and she keeps saying she doesn’t want me involved but I end up in the middle of it. And I’m just so so frustrated with everything and everyone, I’ve recently moved into my own home so I’m trying to deal with that and she’s been really nice giving me things she doesn’t need so I feel bad about feeling like this but then I have to come into work and deal with her complaining all the time about everything and snarky remarks about the other team. I’m not pregnant I don’t intend on being and like I said I’m happy for her but everyday for the last 6 months surely you run out of things to talk about? She also doesn’t do her hours rocks up when she wants and leave at the same time as me and takes a half day every week without having to take the hours back. She talks all day or sits on her phone and doesn’t copy me into emails that I can help with and learn from and she’s getting snappy with me because of her hormones. I know I shouldn’t be annoyed by it all but I am. And it’s gotten to the point where I’m getting snappy with people. I don’t want to be in the office and I just want to be left alone. Am I a bad person for feeling this way?