There's no support group in my area

hi everyone 

I'm 20 years old diagnosed at 10 and I've had no support regarding my Aspergers at school they stopped my statement because I didn't have any learning problems. But that was when I was 14. I have had no support at all and 6 years on I just feel like there's no help/support for me. I'm leaving uni next year as I graduate, but I know I'm adult now but I need some kind of support. A lot of people I left school with and college have all had their first jobs I've applied for loads and I get rejected every time. I had like two interviews. I also would like to meet another adult with Aspergers as I have never met another female with Aspergers and I've only ever met one male with Aspergers. I feel my friends do not understand the problems you face with being an adult with Aspergers. Would be nice to meet a female who understood the same problems with me. I am lucky and have a very good boyfriend but he isn't Autstic so he only go on what I tell him.

Lovely chatting you you all 

:) 

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  • Hi there,

    I'm a 28 year old female who was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome last September and as a consequence, had absolutely no support whilst going through school and college. As I struggled to settle into the college environment I failed my college course and as a consequence of that I didn't go to university. I'm now studying with the Open University and I have a mentor to support me through that and I am noticing the difference it makes to have a bit of support.

    I have a job now and have had them in the past but I've not found it all that easy to get jobs sometimes because they're either the kind of job that I'd struggle with so I don't apply or I apply and never hear back from them. On occasions when I've been to interviews, it's been obvious that I wouldn't 'fit in' and 'fitting in' has always been a difficulty of mine. I'm not in contact with anyone I went to school or college with as they've all moved on and settled down so it's hard.

    I don't think I really know many females with ASD or Aspergers. A lot of what I see seems to focus on children and males so it's nice to see the occasional post here from a female on the spectrum.

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  • Hi there,

    I'm a 28 year old female who was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome last September and as a consequence, had absolutely no support whilst going through school and college. As I struggled to settle into the college environment I failed my college course and as a consequence of that I didn't go to university. I'm now studying with the Open University and I have a mentor to support me through that and I am noticing the difference it makes to have a bit of support.

    I have a job now and have had them in the past but I've not found it all that easy to get jobs sometimes because they're either the kind of job that I'd struggle with so I don't apply or I apply and never hear back from them. On occasions when I've been to interviews, it's been obvious that I wouldn't 'fit in' and 'fitting in' has always been a difficulty of mine. I'm not in contact with anyone I went to school or college with as they've all moved on and settled down so it's hard.

    I don't think I really know many females with ASD or Aspergers. A lot of what I see seems to focus on children and males so it's nice to see the occasional post here from a female on the spectrum.

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