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Ever the fool

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I am the fool.  Loneliness, self deprecation, emotional damage both taken and inadvertently given are a regular part of life.  I am asexual, as I am ambivalent towards people, even disgusted, myself included.  I find the notion of romance and whatnot distasteful.  I am also asocial by circumstance, geographically and by age, gender and personality.  I am a poisonous and depressing entity by nature.

Parents

  • I'm afraid my family relationships will deteriorate as time goes on and eventually we break each others hearts and I will have nobody.

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  • I'm afraid my family relationships will deteriorate as time goes on and eventually we break each others hearts and I will have nobody.

Children
  • in reply to Deleted User

    Self loathing is a very common experience for most/many of us - and I think it is quite helpful to remember that - because it means that we are likely to feel self-loathing at times, irrespective of whether it is merited or not.  We can't help ourselves!

    Family relationships are (lets say) "complex" for almost everyone......but they are also weirdly resilient too!  Accordingly, no matter "how hard it gets/got" there is a very fair chance that the "bond" within a family can conquer many problems that would obliterate a normal friendship bond.  Try not to self-prophesize the end of a family bond.....they often self-repair over time.

    Rest assured......I'm not the "everything will be fine, don't worry" type.......the things I have written here for you are facts, as I understand them.  Personally, I have found that people who are actually self-aware enough to acknowledge BAD things about themselves, are generally more sincere and "long-term good'uns" compared to the alternatives.