Autism and ageing - your experiences

Evening all

Being someone diagnosed in their early 40s I was wondering if older participants on this forum could share their experiences of getting older and any challenges you think we should be aware of? Obviously if you are autistic you don’t know what it’s like to be an ageing NT, but if there’s anything you think is unique to us as autists please share. Anything particular to your 50s, 60s or 70s? 

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  • It is interesting reading people's comments. 

    I didn't suspect I was autistic until I was in my 50s. Having now reached my 60s and having experienced a different way of life during the pandemic, I now find it more difficult to socialize than before. I grew up with an expectation to do this, which I have found more difficult over the years and taken every opportunity to avoid it. 

    Since the pandemic I have worked from home and until last year I more or less coped with that. I am now in my 60s, but not reached retirement age. I would like to retire early, but reality is that I need to try to keep going until I reach state pension age. I have had to make adjustments to manage this and do feel it gets harder after years of masking.

    I believe my father was autistic and he found it very difficult when he spent some time in a care home. I think I would be the same, as there is nowhere you can really feel you have your own space.

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  • It is interesting reading people's comments. 

    I didn't suspect I was autistic until I was in my 50s. Having now reached my 60s and having experienced a different way of life during the pandemic, I now find it more difficult to socialize than before. I grew up with an expectation to do this, which I have found more difficult over the years and taken every opportunity to avoid it. 

    Since the pandemic I have worked from home and until last year I more or less coped with that. I am now in my 60s, but not reached retirement age. I would like to retire early, but reality is that I need to try to keep going until I reach state pension age. I have had to make adjustments to manage this and do feel it gets harder after years of masking.

    I believe my father was autistic and he found it very difficult when he spent some time in a care home. I think I would be the same, as there is nowhere you can really feel you have your own space.

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