How do you cope when visiting the vet?

I had to take one of our cats to the vet today, in what was supposed to be a quieter time slot.

As it was raining, I thought it would be unfair to ask the vet to follow our usual routine, in which they kindly fetch and return in the car park, to avoid me going in.

Inside, there were already two dogs, which I really don't like. My stress level was rising, but the wait was quite short. After the appointment, a HUGE dog was barking and misbehaving right outside the consulting room. I recoiled, the vet moved them aside, and I left through the two sets of doors of an enclosed, porch area (I think of it as an airlock).

As soon as I got outside, the alarm on the car next to mine went off, with a horrendous, high-pitched siren. I retreated into the airlock, feeling trapped and panicky. The alarm then stopped, so I went back outside - only for it to go off again. 

I then retreated all the way inside, now very agitated, and told the receptionist that I couldn't get to my car. Thankfully, it belonged to a gentleman who was being served, so he quickly dealt with it (he'd accidentally locked his colleague inside, but hadn't recognised the sound).

So it was a lose-lose situation. Even if I'd waited in the car, the alarm would still have gone off right next to me. Next time, I'll take my earplugs - which, of course, I didn't have with me :(

How do you get on with visiting the vet, and what coping strategies (if any) do you use?

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  • I'm sorry you had such a traumatic experience. Are you feeling better now? Sending virtual hugs x.

    I no longer have a cat but when I did I always dreaded going to the vets. The vets was always busy, felt too hot and the noise of animals and people chatting was overwhelming and more than once caused me to meltdown. In the end I came up with my own special survival kit: ear plugs, cooling wipes so if I got too hot I could dab my face with them, comfort beads and chewlery to keep me calm and I used to carry a first aid kit in my bag. Lol. That was just me though being a health freak!

    The car alarm etc you heard was unfortunate but like overwhelmed & underwhelmed said another day and another time would be completely different so please don't let that worry you about future visits. It's unlikely to be like that next time. When I used to go to the vets the outside was my safest place, when I was done and I went outside I felt I could breathe.

    I'm sorry this was a negative experience for you. Be kind to yourself now, rest and recover, remind yourself next time will be different and this was just "one of those days". Tomorrow is a new day! Hopefully a better one Slight smile

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  • I'm sorry you had such a traumatic experience. Are you feeling better now? Sending virtual hugs x.

    I no longer have a cat but when I did I always dreaded going to the vets. The vets was always busy, felt too hot and the noise of animals and people chatting was overwhelming and more than once caused me to meltdown. In the end I came up with my own special survival kit: ear plugs, cooling wipes so if I got too hot I could dab my face with them, comfort beads and chewlery to keep me calm and I used to carry a first aid kit in my bag. Lol. That was just me though being a health freak!

    The car alarm etc you heard was unfortunate but like overwhelmed & underwhelmed said another day and another time would be completely different so please don't let that worry you about future visits. It's unlikely to be like that next time. When I used to go to the vets the outside was my safest place, when I was done and I went outside I felt I could breathe.

    I'm sorry this was a negative experience for you. Be kind to yourself now, rest and recover, remind yourself next time will be different and this was just "one of those days". Tomorrow is a new day! Hopefully a better one Slight smile

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