Defining what is AS and what isn't

A widely reported problem on here is the common reaction to someone explaining their autism is "oh i get that too".....etc.

I think because people on the spectrum are relatively isolated, there's little opportunity to chat experiences and get feedback. So people on the spectrum don't know what problems are fairly common in the NT world, and may not be autism specific.

I've just posted on the question of hearing sensitivity/filtering sound on another thread. I've found that the problems I've had are reported by others not on the spectrum, including people with dyslexia.

I wondered if others had found that some things they associate with autism are more widely present in the general population (but not just a matter of degree as with spectrum - tailing off into the general population - but similar levels of difficulty experienced by people not having autism which is otherwise assumed to be an autism characteristic).

If that makes sense.......

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  • And I feel really angry that (a) I feel so alien and I am so different (b) they have no idea and I can't explain it to them because there aren't words I can find to do so without it falling into that "everyone gets that" idiocy (c) professionals are so ignorant about autism and they are meant to be the educated ones (d) NT expectations and demands are so fixed and unbudging as to how and why we should be like them and that (e) I actually end up feeling like I have to be like them and fit in, like it, accept it, not resist it and if I do that I am lacking somehow.

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  • And I feel really angry that (a) I feel so alien and I am so different (b) they have no idea and I can't explain it to them because there aren't words I can find to do so without it falling into that "everyone gets that" idiocy (c) professionals are so ignorant about autism and they are meant to be the educated ones (d) NT expectations and demands are so fixed and unbudging as to how and why we should be like them and that (e) I actually end up feeling like I have to be like them and fit in, like it, accept it, not resist it and if I do that I am lacking somehow.

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