Is this correct and is it a reason for bullying?

(I posted this research yesterday on the thread "Is autism an excuse for bad behaviour?")

 I discovered that researchers in a 2011 study gave autistic and neurotypical people this scenario:

"Imagine this: Janet and her friend are kayaking in a part of the ocean with many jellyfish. Janet had read that the jellyfish aren't dangerous, and tells her friend it's alright to swim. Her friend is stung by a jellyfish and dies. - Is Janet to blame?"

Their results showed that autistic people usually said it was Janet's fault while the neurotypical people said it was just an accident . The researchers concluded that this showed that autistic people were focused on the result, rather than the intention of the person involved, and was due to "theory of mind" (not being able to imagine what someone is thinking or feeling)

(Edit: I've just been thinking about this again and I'm not sure if the researchers were wholly correct in their conclusion. Perhaps the autistic participants did put themselves in Janet's place and knew they would feel guilty in that situation, which made them decide Janet was guilty - which means it's about how they would feel, not just about the result of it?)

Although I would feel terribly guilty if I was Janet, factually I do not believe the fault is hers as I believe we all have a responsibility to look after ourselves (apart from children and disabled/vulnerable people, but the scenario did not say the friend was either a child or vulnerable) The friend had a choice to research the area before travelling there, and to decide whether to swim in an area with unfamiliar creatures.

But I've been thinking further about this theory that neurotypical people focus more on intent than outcome, and wondered if this is the cause of bullying? Do bullies not have the intention of hurting people? Those who upset others will often claim it was "just a bit of fun" and they say people should " man up" or "not be such a wuss" but I think that for autistic people the intent doesn't matter, if someone is hurt or upset by someone that is wrong. I know that I'm always horrified to think I've upset or hurt someone.

What are your thoughts on this?

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  • I absolutely relate and agree. The thought that I hurt someone is one of my biggest trigger and I think I even wrote in that previous thread that I would have felt terribly guilty if I was Janet. It’s extremely hard for me to read other people’s intentions, so I kinda have to rely on what they tell me their intentions are and then I often find myself being used, lied to etc. Neurotypical people don’t have this struggle, they usually know what the intentions of the other person are, because they see it in the expression, tone etc. 

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  • I absolutely relate and agree. The thought that I hurt someone is one of my biggest trigger and I think I even wrote in that previous thread that I would have felt terribly guilty if I was Janet. It’s extremely hard for me to read other people’s intentions, so I kinda have to rely on what they tell me their intentions are and then I often find myself being used, lied to etc. Neurotypical people don’t have this struggle, they usually know what the intentions of the other person are, because they see it in the expression, tone etc. 

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