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Dating is so hard for Autistic people

AmyLR94

Why is it so hard to find someone genuine when it comes to dating Pensive.

I thought I would take the big step and join Tinder (again) and FB dating (again). Today I was speaking to someone on FB and he sounded nice and genuine, but something was off and he kept calling me babe and baby with kisses. Then he said he was thinking of be all day and then when I said if he could hold back from calling me baby and babe as I don’t know him that well, he deactivates he account after sending me a message saying “Take Care, your not the lady for me” *sighs*

I feel like I should just stay single and alone Pensive, it’s so hard to find someone.

I just want to feel loved and do all those couple things that everyone does SobSob x

UPDATE: Thank you to the people who have commented so far Relaxed️. I have deleted Tinder and FB Dating. I don’t think Dating apps are for me as I find it so hard to understand if someone is being genuine or just messing with my feelings.

I turned 30 this year so I wanted to actually find someone who would like me the way I am *sighs* but it’s difficult to find anyone genuine these days. Looks like I will be alone with pets for the rest of my life. 

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  • you're not alone, their is someone out there for everyone. i've not dated in 15 years and i'm 32 now, i have ASD, ADD, but the biggest one for me is social anxiety, I struggle being around large crowds and talking to people face to face. the constant feeling alone is awful, i've even tried joining - Neurodivergent Solos UK FB group, unfortunately most facebook groups like this people are too far away from me. hopefully one day i'll find my hazel grace - from, The Fault in Our Stars. keep your chin up and don't give up, i'm sure someone will come along when you least expect it 

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  • you're not alone, their is someone out there for everyone. i've not dated in 15 years and i'm 32 now, i have ASD, ADD, but the biggest one for me is social anxiety, I struggle being around large crowds and talking to people face to face. the constant feeling alone is awful, i've even tried joining - Neurodivergent Solos UK FB group, unfortunately most facebook groups like this people are too far away from me. hopefully one day i'll find my hazel grace - from, The Fault in Our Stars. keep your chin up and don't give up, i'm sure someone will come along when you least expect it 

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  • in reply to Mitch

    i also highly recommend you join - Neurodivergent Adults, i'm always trying to make people smile & laugh, give advice where i can. everyone is treated like one big family. you can ask any questions you want and also give other people advice. if you do ever join either one of these look me up, (same picture on here & my FB) & feel free to message me anytime, if you need to talk, vent or just want emotional support. i'll always be there, you're never alone