Dating is so hard for Autistic people

Why is it so hard to find someone genuine when it comes to dating Pensive.

I thought I would take the big step and join Tinder (again) and FB dating (again). Today I was speaking to someone on FB and he sounded nice and genuine, but something was off and he kept calling me babe and baby with kisses. Then he said he was thinking of be all day and then when I said if he could hold back from calling me baby and babe as I don’t know him that well, he deactivates he account after sending me a message saying “Take Care, your not the lady for me” *sighs*

I feel like I should just stay single and alone Pensive, it’s so hard to find someone.

I just want to feel loved and do all those couple things that everyone does SobSob x

UPDATE: Thank you to the people who have commented so far Relaxed️. I have deleted Tinder and FB Dating. I don’t think Dating apps are for me as I find it so hard to understand if someone is being genuine or just messing with my feelings.

I turned 30 this year so I wanted to actually find someone who would like me the way I am *sighs* but it’s difficult to find anyone genuine these days. Looks like I will be alone with pets for the rest of my life. 

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  • Tinder published statistics that said (something like) the top few percent of men were getting 90% of the dates. One of the consequences of that is that the men who do get attention are spoiled for choice and don’t have to try very hard or treat people very well.

    Tinder really doesn’t seem like a good place to seek a relationship.

  • Tinder published statistics that said (something like) the top few percent of men were getting 90% of the dates

    I'm not sure on that statistic. It seems aimed at promoting "manosphere" ideology that only alpha men are successful and that the vast majority of women are only interested in them, both of which are utter nonsense.

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