Would you ban Christmas

if you could?

A deliberately controversial title Blush

How many people welcome Christmas with open arms, I wonder?

It's purportedly a Christian festival based upon a pagan one.

However, in the UK today (a secular society) and a lot of the West, the God being worshipped appears to be money.

When I was a child we were working class.

In those days (60s/70s) goods were far more expensive as the mass manufacturing we see today of cheap imported goods didn't happen.

Borrowing money from banks etc was far more difficult than it is today.

We didn't have much and didn't get much for Christmas.

Also, my mother became cyclically depressed every Christmas and because of all the arguments and misery during my childhood Christmases, I get depressed too.

There are other causes of the depression - bereavement, most of my life spent in deep anxiety about how I was going to pay for presents and spending time in mass gatherings I hated.

I went shopping today and the shops are mad, completely mad with people rushing around buying stuff that the recipients may not even want.

This is what Mind says:

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/christmas-and-mental-health/christmas-and-mental-health/

What do you think?

Does it cause more misery than happiness?

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  • I'm a born again Christian since 2012.

    I agree that christmas is a Pagan "tradition" dressed up as quasi religious, much like easter which is actually Passover, add in that the date itself is not the birth date of the Messiah.

    You can add in all the commercialy viable days like mother's day, father's day, valentine's day, etc, etc.

    Since last year I only celebrate birthdays, I told my family that I had deleted christmas so no presents required or given! They took it in good faith but still managed to supply me with an endless stream of unwrapped mince pies! Joy

  • Since last year I only celebrate birthdays

    I like that as I've always felt birthdays are important - they are celebrating the existence of the person.

    I told my family that I had deleted christmas so no presents required or given! They took it in good faith

    Well done.

    It's not always easy to make things easier for ourselves.

    Enjoy the mince pies (I'm about to have one actually with a cup of tea).

  • I always phone my Mum & Dad and wish THEM happy birthday when I grow a year older, you're right celebrating the existence of a person is a very important thing to acknowledge.

    I'm the non conformist of my family, so they are pretty used to my "out of the box" thinking and know not to challenge them as I won't change my mind and they may be subjected to what I now know as "info dumping" on any of my "out of the box" thoughts!

    I love a mince pie! Smiley

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