Would you ban Christmas

if you could?

A deliberately controversial title Blush

How many people welcome Christmas with open arms, I wonder?

It's purportedly a Christian festival based upon a pagan one.

However, in the UK today (a secular society) and a lot of the West, the God being worshipped appears to be money.

When I was a child we were working class.

In those days (60s/70s) goods were far more expensive as the mass manufacturing we see today of cheap imported goods didn't happen.

Borrowing money from banks etc was far more difficult than it is today.

We didn't have much and didn't get much for Christmas.

Also, my mother became cyclically depressed every Christmas and because of all the arguments and misery during my childhood Christmases, I get depressed too.

There are other causes of the depression - bereavement, most of my life spent in deep anxiety about how I was going to pay for presents and spending time in mass gatherings I hated.

I went shopping today and the shops are mad, completely mad with people rushing around buying stuff that the recipients may not even want.

This is what Mind says:

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/christmas-and-mental-health/christmas-and-mental-health/

What do you think?

Does it cause more misery than happiness?

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  • No, I wouldn't outright ban Christmas. For one thing, it is a genuine religious holiday for a lot of people. I'm an atheist, but I can respect other people's beliefs.

    I generally don't mind it, though as a parent I've realised it can be somewhat stressful in terms of preparation. There seems to be a lot to do, not just getting presents for my children but going to school events and so on. It does seem a lot for just one day, but I now get satisfaction from seeing my children being happy and excited like I used to be. I'm was never really bothered with presents for myself. Things like my younger children writing a note for Father Christmas the night before just make me happy.

    It probably also helps that I get on well with my family, so when we have to host lots of people then it's about tolerable. I can just about manage one day of it and accept that.

    I suppose I also like all the lights visible in the dark, because after Christmas it's another 2-3 cold months of darkness before spring again.

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  • No, I wouldn't outright ban Christmas. For one thing, it is a genuine religious holiday for a lot of people. I'm an atheist, but I can respect other people's beliefs.

    I generally don't mind it, though as a parent I've realised it can be somewhat stressful in terms of preparation. There seems to be a lot to do, not just getting presents for my children but going to school events and so on. It does seem a lot for just one day, but I now get satisfaction from seeing my children being happy and excited like I used to be. I'm was never really bothered with presents for myself. Things like my younger children writing a note for Father Christmas the night before just make me happy.

    It probably also helps that I get on well with my family, so when we have to host lots of people then it's about tolerable. I can just about manage one day of it and accept that.

    I suppose I also like all the lights visible in the dark, because after Christmas it's another 2-3 cold months of darkness before spring again.

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