Would you ban Christmas

if you could?

A deliberately controversial title Blush

How many people welcome Christmas with open arms, I wonder?

It's purportedly a Christian festival based upon a pagan one.

However, in the UK today (a secular society) and a lot of the West, the God being worshipped appears to be money.

When I was a child we were working class.

In those days (60s/70s) goods were far more expensive as the mass manufacturing we see today of cheap imported goods didn't happen.

Borrowing money from banks etc was far more difficult than it is today.

We didn't have much and didn't get much for Christmas.

Also, my mother became cyclically depressed every Christmas and because of all the arguments and misery during my childhood Christmases, I get depressed too.

There are other causes of the depression - bereavement, most of my life spent in deep anxiety about how I was going to pay for presents and spending time in mass gatherings I hated.

I went shopping today and the shops are mad, completely mad with people rushing around buying stuff that the recipients may not even want.

This is what Mind says:

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/christmas-and-mental-health/christmas-and-mental-health/

What do you think?

Does it cause more misery than happiness?

Parents
  • Every Christmas or any other gathering I used to always take a break and disappear. It was too much and unbearable for me. I never understood that craziness with gifts and dresses etc. while my sister, auntie, cousin etc they were very much concerned what they gonna wear I just jumped in something that was relatively comfortable, a bit elegant but nothing special and I have never bought any dress special for this occasion. Also the gifts, in my family it was resolved the way that we drawed each other and this way everyone had a gift but not a pile of gifts. I also remember the arguments and I wondered how important is the fish made my step dads way to destroy the whole Christmas. I liked the Christmas tree in my grannies, it was always natural with the nice smell, with gingerbreads hang on it, also other old Christmas balls and the decorations made by ourselves. Preparation for Christmas was fun with my grands. That was the real taste of it. Now, when I see a delivery of Christmas decorations coming in august I start feeling sick of it. It’s so commercial, that it has lost its magic. 

  • I liked the Christmas tree in my grannies, it was always natural with the nice smell, with gingerbreads hang on it, also other old Christmas balls and the decorations made by ourselves.

    A nice memory.

    I like the idea of gingerbreads on the tree - I don't think we have that in England.

    I have vintage baubles which I love.

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