Would you ban Christmas

if you could?

A deliberately controversial title Blush

How many people welcome Christmas with open arms, I wonder?

It's purportedly a Christian festival based upon a pagan one.

However, in the UK today (a secular society) and a lot of the West, the God being worshipped appears to be money.

When I was a child we were working class.

In those days (60s/70s) goods were far more expensive as the mass manufacturing we see today of cheap imported goods didn't happen.

Borrowing money from banks etc was far more difficult than it is today.

We didn't have much and didn't get much for Christmas.

Also, my mother became cyclically depressed every Christmas and because of all the arguments and misery during my childhood Christmases, I get depressed too.

There are other causes of the depression - bereavement, most of my life spent in deep anxiety about how I was going to pay for presents and spending time in mass gatherings I hated.

I went shopping today and the shops are mad, completely mad with people rushing around buying stuff that the recipients may not even want.

This is what Mind says:

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/christmas-and-mental-health/christmas-and-mental-health/

What do you think?

Does it cause more misery than happiness?

Parents
  • I wouldn’t ban it but I am conflicted.

    As a kid I loved Christmas like any other child but as an adult it’s a very lonely experience and just another reminder that I’m not really part of human society. I also lost both my parents very close to Christmas which adds a bit of extra sadness. Although for some reason New Year’s Eve  is much worse in this respect.

    I know it’s a wonderful time for most people and I wouldn’t deprive them of that but it would be nice if it was easier to tune it out and pretend it’s not happening (but it’s every where - TV, shops, work even lights in the street).

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  • I wouldn’t ban it but I am conflicted.

    As a kid I loved Christmas like any other child but as an adult it’s a very lonely experience and just another reminder that I’m not really part of human society. I also lost both my parents very close to Christmas which adds a bit of extra sadness. Although for some reason New Year’s Eve  is much worse in this respect.

    I know it’s a wonderful time for most people and I wouldn’t deprive them of that but it would be nice if it was easier to tune it out and pretend it’s not happening (but it’s every where - TV, shops, work even lights in the street).

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