Would you ban Christmas

if you could?

A deliberately controversial title Blush

How many people welcome Christmas with open arms, I wonder?

It's purportedly a Christian festival based upon a pagan one.

However, in the UK today (a secular society) and a lot of the West, the God being worshipped appears to be money.

When I was a child we were working class.

In those days (60s/70s) goods were far more expensive as the mass manufacturing we see today of cheap imported goods didn't happen.

Borrowing money from banks etc was far more difficult than it is today.

We didn't have much and didn't get much for Christmas.

Also, my mother became cyclically depressed every Christmas and because of all the arguments and misery during my childhood Christmases, I get depressed too.

There are other causes of the depression - bereavement, most of my life spent in deep anxiety about how I was going to pay for presents and spending time in mass gatherings I hated.

I went shopping today and the shops are mad, completely mad with people rushing around buying stuff that the recipients may not even want.

This is what Mind says:

https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/christmas-and-mental-health/christmas-and-mental-health/

What do you think?

Does it cause more misery than happiness?

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  • I love Xmas at home with my family. It’s a fun time and always feels relaxed on the day. My sister is still young enough that she sees the magic and wonder, and I see that on her face and can feel the invisible energy beaming off her. Her excitement is almost electrifying and it reminds me of when I was her age.

    I absolutely dread going out during the Xmas period!

    It’s always busy. Shops are packed with people who rudely shove you out the way! Music is played way louder than it should be. Outside is a big sensory overload. After going out shopping I need to rest straight away, I am exhausted and feeling burn out beginning.

    I wouldn’t ban Xmas because it means so much to me and my family but I wish people didn’t go so OTT during this time of year. Going out is like going in to a storm and it triggers the anxiety like nothing else.

  • I wish people didn’t go so OTT during this time of year. Going out is like going in to a storm and it triggers the anxiety like nothing else.

    Yeah - if it could be modified in that way, it would be a huge improvement.

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