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The not knowing

Rach91

Hay not sure if it’s just me or an autistic trait but I really hate the not knowing it makes me really anxious and ill. Tomorrow I’m supposed to be meeting my friend we supposed to be going to do circus skills in the morning and then back to mine for the rest of the day I’m supposed to be making broth in the slow cooker and I’ve bought the ingredients. My friend car has broken down he had to call for help and I don’t know what’s going on if they can fix it or if they can provide him with a curtesy car or anything. I have tried calling him and he either rejects the call or doesn’t answer the last message he sent me was he trying to get his car sorted. I really hate the not knowing my anxiety is through the roof because I want to know is tomorrow on so I can freeze my ingredients if it has to be postponed. Does anyone else get anxious when they don’t know what’s what? 

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  • In a word - yes.

    I don't think it's fare to say things like "control freak" but the ability to be able to control my future is important, the sense that anything could happen is really discomforting.

    Do you think you could make an executive decision about tomorrow (if you've not heard yet), and just say - he IS coming, and prepare then for the day as if he is. Should someone else happen later on which changes  that, then make a decision should that happen?

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  • In a word - yes.

    I don't think it's fare to say things like "control freak" but the ability to be able to control my future is important, the sense that anything could happen is really discomforting.

    Do you think you could make an executive decision about tomorrow (if you've not heard yet), and just say - he IS coming, and prepare then for the day as if he is. Should someone else happen later on which changes  that, then make a decision should that happen?

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