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Advice on relationship

Dana

Hi. I've been trying to look for an advice on a particular relationship. I am friends with a guy, and we reconnected on July. We are long distance, he is in Switzerland, I am in the UK. 

We have been flirting for a couple of months until last week. He doesn't use winking emojis anymore when he is texting me. We even have shorter conversations. We used to have long conversations. I have a feeling that he is not interested in me anymore. I think he is not interested in me anymore because I told him about a friend, and basically I clarified that she is my friend's friend. He thinks that I lied, but I am not sure. 

What would be the best advice? Should I text him if he lost interest in me? I would like to get a clarification. 

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  • Communication is *always* what you need to keep relationships going. Ask yourself this: If he is already getting suspicious that you are lying to him two months into your relationship, is this someone you can truly be open with in five years? Ten, even? 

    It is plausible that he is busy with work and doesn't have as much time as he used to for chatting with you. Maybe he doesn't see how the lack of Emojis affects you emotionally. It's always best to talk these things through as soon as you notice problems so they can be resolved without leaving hard feelings behind. 

    Here's one more thing to think about: What do you have to lose by asking him where he stands with you? It would of course, hurt, if he said he was no longer interested in you but you would be able to move on without that uncertainity weighing you down. But if that is the worst case scenario, do you truly have anything to fear?

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