I'm probably leaving

Or maybe only popping by to say hello now. Since the "upgrade", I've had messages removed as offensive, as spam and now they're threatening to stop my whole account. I don't seem to be able to get onto a log in page to change back to being TheCatWoman, so I feel as though I'm being punished. I've been told that one of my posts was flagged as offensive by someone and has been removed and another is under appeal, I've no idea what was offensive or against site rules in the post that has been removed, it was a fairly bland political post neither for or against anyone in particular.

Are we expected now to say nothing that could cause any possible offence to anybody?

Are we no longer allowed to express an opinion?

Who decides what is flagged? Is it one negative tick from one poster who may not like us?

Will we only be able to send vague and bland questions and thoughts in case "somebody" finds them offensive?

Well actually I find that notion offensive, the idea that there can be a chat board for a specific group of people, only we're not allowed to actually say anything that may help us make connections is absurd. I'm not a free speach warrior, but this does feel like normal converations are under attack, what's worse is whilst one may appeal there's no reasons or guidance given as to what the offensive content was. I'm left asking myself who or what flagged my post up as abusive and who or what decided to remove it? Was it human or was it an algorhythm? With no guidance as to how to avoid this alleged abuse, I'm left feeling hurt, confused, unrepresented and very angry, this is suposed to be a supportive place, not one that censors us when we're already a group that suffers from not knowing social rules and have problems communicating to others.

This site feels very dystopian right now

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  • Hi The Cat Woman, I hope you don't leave. I'm sorry you and all of us are having so many problems with our accounts but IMHO this community is worth the hassle. Over the years I've found good friends and support here, more support than professionals were able to offer. Rather than a forum a lot of here and the people feel like family to me. Though it's frustrating the IT team at NAS will fix it, hopefully soon, so I hope you'll be able to hang about for that. Take care.

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  • Hi The Cat Woman, I hope you don't leave. I'm sorry you and all of us are having so many problems with our accounts but IMHO this community is worth the hassle. Over the years I've found good friends and support here, more support than professionals were able to offer. Rather than a forum a lot of here and the people feel like family to me. Though it's frustrating the IT team at NAS will fix it, hopefully soon, so I hope you'll be able to hang about for that. Take care.

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