how people on the spectrum cope with being parents???

I don't know... at the beginning , when I first mentioned me moving out  ( almost 2 years ago) he was quite nasty   ( he is one of those people who think that conditions like dyslexia  or depression were made up by lazy people to cover up for  their unwillingness to make an effort to do things)...  he wanted to hide my documents or  never let me go out for a day off  etc ( anything to prevent me from not coming back)... then he got used to this idea more, but still... he controlls our finances   and says that I'm confused and don't know what I want/need and should allow others to make a sound judgement ... that family is the most important thing and I should forget about myself in order to preserve it... things like that

I don't know... at the beginning , when I first mentioned me moving out  ( almost 2 years ago) he was quite nasty   ( he is one of those people who think that conditions like dyslexia  or depression were made up by lazy people to cover up for  their unwillingness to make an effort to do things)...  he wanted to hide my documents or  never let me go out for a day off  etc ( anything to prevent me from not coming back)... then he got used to this idea more, but still... he controlls our finances   and says that I'm confused and don't know what I want/need and should allow others to make a sound judgement ... that family is the most important thing and I should forget about myself in order to preserve it... things like that