how people on the spectrum cope with being parents???

please, anyone, share your experiences!  I found  the whole marriage thing exhausting enough,  but since I had 2 kids - life became IMPOSSIBLE...  I never even wanted kids...and still don't... 

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  • Hi lipgloss

    In your posts you have said that you have considered leaving, but you have also said that you struggle to take a day off because you have to prepare meals, etc and it is too much for you too manage. Question is if you left your husband he  would have no choice but to step up and manage the kids on his own, which would mean preparing meals, ect. You know he could otherwise you would never have considered leaving, so there is probably something else that prevents you from taking time out, worth exploring I think.

    Hope this helps.

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  • Hi lipgloss

    In your posts you have said that you have considered leaving, but you have also said that you struggle to take a day off because you have to prepare meals, etc and it is too much for you too manage. Question is if you left your husband he  would have no choice but to step up and manage the kids on his own, which would mean preparing meals, ect. You know he could otherwise you would never have considered leaving, so there is probably something else that prevents you from taking time out, worth exploring I think.

    Hope this helps.

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