how people on the spectrum cope with being parents???

I don't know how they cope... they are still quite young , my eldest has lots of ASD traits and is more challenging then the youngest ...we had to orginize full time nursery for her when she was 2,5 , and because it's a small private nursery with very caring/loving stuff she started liking it in there and is generally much better with people now then before; doesn't play with others though, but at least she's ok being among others ...and at home she goes to daddy for cuddles when she feels like being comforted ... but yes, she often comes up to me with questions like "mom, do you like/love  me?"   I reply by saying " well, do YOU like ME?"  she says "yes, you have a nice top"  ... from my own experience I know how damaging bad parenting can be, but also how adaptive kids are...when we don't know any different we just think it should be that way...

I don't know how they cope... they are still quite young , my eldest has lots of ASD traits and is more challenging then the youngest ...we had to orginize full time nursery for her when she was 2,5 , and because it's a small private nursery with very caring/loving stuff she started liking it in there and is generally much better with people now then before; doesn't play with others though, but at least she's ok being among others ...and at home she goes to daddy for cuddles when she feels like being comforted ... but yes, she often comes up to me with questions like "mom, do you like/love  me?"   I reply by saying " well, do YOU like ME?"  she says "yes, you have a nice top"  ... from my own experience I know how damaging bad parenting can be, but also how adaptive kids are...when we don't know any different we just think it should be that way...