Published on 12, July, 2020
Hello...
Just a question for the men of the group, i was wondering if any of you have problems with intimacy especially close intimacy and physical relations.
I seem to have a huge problem with it and really struggle with the opposite sex in this area, oddly if it was a one off it wouldnt bother me as much but the idea of being so close with some makes me feel awkward. And enacting these situations means you have to be really close to someone which is causing me a lot of stress at the min.
Do other men in the group have these issues. Apologies if this isnt clear i have trouble explaining whats happening for me..
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I have found in the past that being so close face to face is intimidating as making eye contact really troubles me. I did find that anonymous hook ups (if I could get any) were much better for me. I crave a loving relationship but not sure how the intimacy chasm is bridged.
Yeah its weird isnt Bing so close and face to face terrifies me and also being judged on things as well. Anonymous hooks ups seem to work maybe because of the no personal intimacy.. I appreciate you saying you are not sure how the intimacy chasm is bridged cause i feel like i am the only one that feels that way..
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